The History & Meaning of Toi et Moi Rings… and Our Favorite Berlinger Designs!

Toi et Moi rings, translated from French to "you and me," are a symbol of unity and love. This design, featuring two gemstones side by side, has a rich history and continues to be a favorite for engagement rings and fashion pieces alike. Let's explore the enduring appeal of this iconic ring design.

A Romantic Legacy

The Toi et Moi ring's history dates back to the late 18th century when Napoleon Bonaparte proposed to Josephine de Beauharnais with one in 1796. Napoleon's ring featured a gold band with two pear shaped gems—a diamond and a sapphire—nestled together, symbolizing the union of two hearts. Despite the simplicity of its design, the ring’s significance and beauty made it unforgettable. This romantic gesture set the stage for the Toi et Moi ring, becoming a classic choice for couples wanting to symbolize their love stories and partnerships.


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Modern-Day Icons

The Toi et Moi ring has remained a beloved choice over the centuries, with numerous iconic figures wearing this design. Jackie Kennedy’s emerald and diamond Toi et Moi ring, crafted by Van Cleef & Arpels, is one of the most notable. This stunning piece featured an emerald and diamond, both weighing over 2.8 carats, wrapped in baguette diamonds.

Celebrities have revived the Toi et Moi ring trend: Megan Fox's emerald and diamond ring from Machine Gun Kelly, Emily Ratajkowski's princess cut and pear-shaped diamond ring, Ariana Grande’s ring with an oval diamond and her grandfather’s pearl, and Kylie Jenner's stylish design all highlight its enduring appeal.


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Symbolism and Significance of Toi et Moi Rings

Toi et Moi rings, translated from French to "you and me," are a symbol of unity and love. This design, featuring two gemstones side by side, has a rich history and continues to be a favorite for engagement rings and fashion pieces alike. Let's explore the enduring appeal of this iconic ring design.

Beyond Engagements: Fashion and Cocktail Rings

While Toi et Moi rings are a popular choice for engagements, their allure extends beyond bridal jewelry. These rings make for great right-hand rings for milestones, for a push present or baby gift (think diamond & baby’s birthstone) or to treat yourself. The dual gemstone design allows for endless creativity, making each Toi et Moi ring a unique statement piece.

Our Favorite Berlinger Toi et Moi Styles

Toi et moi is a French phrase that translates to "you and me"

Conclusion

The Toi et Moi ring, with its rich history and deep symbolism, is a beloved choice for expressing love and connection. Whether as an engagement ring or a fashion accessory, its unique design and meaningful representation of unity make it a timeless piece. Explore our collection at Berlinger Jewelry to find your perfect Toi et Moi ring and celebrate your unique bond.

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